Winstone
Churchill once
said, “Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to
continue that count.” and as per personal experience I believe that success is
meaningless without experiencing failure.
Even
though we try to neglect we cannot change the fact that ‘failure’ is an important aspect of our day-to-day life most people are afraid of. But the
truth is some of us have failed, some of us are failing today and some of us will
probably fail tomorrow. What we need to remember here is that the only
difference between successful and unsuccessful people is that successful people
didn’t give up even after failing multiple times. We tend to think that people
are lucky as they never experienced failure, but do we know the list failures
behind their success stories? If you are still afraid here are some reasons to
take failure positively:
Failure
is the greatest teacher
Although
it may sound harsh, failure is necessary to learn the ultimate lesson of life;
you cannot give up not now, not ever, until you reach your goal. Failing will
take place and it doesn’t matter how hard you try you will indeed have an
encounter with it so developing the positive attitude that speaks “No fear” toward
will surely help you in your blooming days.
Failure
Determines your personality
There
are two types of people who live in this world, one who finds failure as a
permanent solution and give up and second who considers failure as a life
lesson and learns from it. Considering failure as a temporary setback is the first step toward maturity.
We all
experience sadness and sorrow after going through the failure which is
completely normal and inevitable. And you experience failure then it is better
to express the emotion rather than bottling them inside you. If you ever feel
discouraged because of your failure then, read and listen to stories of
successful people. it will help you to realize even the people who are
successful now even have their fair share of failures. For instance; J.K
Rowling was rejected by 11 publishing houses before finally launching Harry
Potter. if they can do it so do you.
Failure
takes you one step closer to your goal
In order
to reach your goal, you need to move out of your comfort zone and push yourself
to your limit to perform the impossible tasks. Developing a positive and
fearless attitude toward failure will maximize your potential, encourage you,
and boost your performance.
Failure
encourages you to take risk
Ever heard about the famous phrase “No pain, no gain”. Well, the same applies when it comes to success, if you can’t deal with failure then, you don’t deserve to enjoy what comes after it. When you eliminate the fear of failure, you make yourself brave enough to take risks and enjoy the profit that comes with it. As an aspirant, you should comprehend lessons that come with your failure and find better ways to build your dreams or someone else will hire you to build theirs.
In the end, you need to understand that every one of us has their own flaw as nobody is born perfect. What you need to do is turn your flaws into strengths by accepting failure and learning from your mistakes.
